I hear it all the time. Ladies just going through the motion, no conversation. I hate thars what you guys have to deal with. There are loads of providers who actually love bcd activities, enjoy the company of their guests, and appreciate you. I'd love to have a good quality list of these ladies so if you know one please respond(with their permission please) and I will start making the list. It's important for everyone that we are all treated with dignity, respect, affection and appreciation. It makes the hobby so much better